𝗦𝗼, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱. 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁? 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲! 𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘀, 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹, 𝘄𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗯𝘂𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗮 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱.

𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳. If you change how you think then you will change how you feel and what actions you take. And so the world around you will change.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹. What you feel and how you react to something is always up to you. There may be a “normal” or a common way to react to different things. But that's mostly just all it is.

𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝗴𝗼. If you don't forgive then you let the past and another person to control how you feel. By forgiving you release yourself from those bonds. And then you can focus totally on, for instance, the next point.

𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻'𝘁 𝗴𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲. Without taking action very little will be done. However, taking action can be hard and difficult. There can be much inner resistance. You have to take action and translate that knowledge into results and understanding.

𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁. Well, when you are in the present moment you don't worry about the next moment that you can't control anyway. And the resistance to action that comes from you imagining negative future consequences – or reflecting on past failures – of your actions loses its power. And so it becomes easier to both take action and to keep your focus on this moment and perform better.

𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻. it's important to remember that we are all human and prone to make mistakes. Holding people to unreasonable standards will only create more unnecessary conflicts in your world and negativity within you.

𝗣𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗶𝘀𝘁. Find what you really like to do. Then it will be easier to stay positive and you'll find the inner motivation to keep going, going and going.

𝗦𝗲𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺. when you see the good in people it becomes easier to motivate yourself to be of service to them. By being of service to other people, by giving them value you not only make their lives better.

𝗕𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗿𝘂𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝘂𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰, 𝗯𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳. When words and thoughts are aligned then that shows through in your communication. Because now you have your voice tonality and body language – some say they are over 90 percent of communication – in alignment with your words.

𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘂𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗼𝗹𝘃𝗲. You can pretty much always improve your skills, habits or re-evaluate your evaluations. You can gain deeper understanding of yourself and the world.

Generally, By holding yourself accountable, while giving yourself the grace to make mistakes, then you are priming your influence to be contagious throughout the entire world.